Category Archives: Forever Home

The New Tree – Layer One

New home, nice home, Forever home. However bad 2025 might SUCK, and believe me, we don’t have to look far to see evidence of that, this will be the year that we got our Forever Home.

Our old Christmas tree was probably 20+ years old. It was a bit ratty, and most/all of the built in lights were shot. It’s now part of the outdoor decorations in the front yard and makes a wonderful substrate for a couple of strings of lights. But for the new home with the tall ceilings and the gorgous Great Room and kitchn, we needed something bigger and newer.

There are eight or nine different modes for the built-in lights here, both colored and white, twinkling & steady, switching back and forth, very complex. For now we’ve settled on the steady white lights for this first “layer.” We’ll add strings of colored lights over the top, then ornaments of all kinds (we have a “garbage” tree design), then decorate the rest of the room and the interior.

In addition, the rest of the outdoor lights have arrived and I think I’ve hit (barely!) all of the super critical deadlines at work, so I’ll be able to take some time to get the rest of the outdoor lights up.

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Community Christmas

The Long-Suffering Wife noticed an announcement on the FaceBook page for the local town we’ve moved to about an event at the Civic Center park with Santa, music, food, and the town Christmas tree lighting. We’re trying to be proactive about getting out and getting active in the town that we’ve chosen as our Forever Home, so off we went.

IT WAS LOVELY!!

Booths with lots of crafts and toys. Tons of people with their dogs, including an incredibly sweet and patient Great Dane. Free cookies & hot chocolate. Other food trucks, everything from pizza, crepes, Mexican food, coffee, and ice cream. Dozens and dozens of inflatable figures and a gazillion lights on the trees all through the park.

We had a wonderful sunset, then the place really lit up. The park itself (first time we’ve been over to the Library and Civic Center area) is great, plenty of benches and room to roam, fountains, and so on. We heard that during the summer there are Friday night concerts there – something to watch out for in 2026 and beyond! Plenty of parking. All in all an extremely pleasant place. We picked a good place to live!

The fountains were off but still had water in them, so there were reflections to be seen. The stage had music from a local band as well as the bands and choral groups from at least two of the local high schools. There was a dance group made up of grade school and middle school students. Santa and Mrs. Claus came in via the local LifeFlight helicopter and were scheduled for a couple hours of taking pictures with kids.

My goofy “Dr Seuss” style sproingy Christmas hat was a big hit, I got many compliments.

We didn’t stay for the tree lighting since we were getting hungry, but you can bet we’ll keep an eye open for other community events such as parades, concerts, or other holiday celebrations.

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Morphing Into Gondor

With the maple tree in our front yard becoming increasingly denuded and looking more and more like the White Tree of Gondor, it only makes sense that as I allow my hair to grow back out and I’m starting to look my age, I’m looking more and more like Denethor (son of Ecthelion), the 26th and Final Steward of Gondor, as portrayed in the movies by John Noble.

I hope this doesn’t mean that I have to fight an orc army or Ring Wraiths on flying Nazgul. So far it’s just Two-Tone and the owl and they seem friendly-ish.

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Ice Cream Truck

About sixteen months ago, I wroteTake Advantage Of Your Opportunities When You Get Them:

At our old house on Pomelo, the streets were flat and we were about five houses down the street from the elementary school, so we would have the ice cream truck by almost daily during the summer, every year. I would always hear it and always be busy, so I always figured that I would go out and catch the truck and get a random, spontaneous ice cream treat some other time in the future. Tomorrow. Or the next day. Next week, maybe. Next month…

Six years ago we moved to this house, which is at the top of a really long, steep hill that the ice cream truck might or might not be able to actually get up, and we’re nowhere near a school. Thus, NO ice cream trucks here. EVER.

And something made me think about that and realize that I had the opportunity almost daily for DECADES and I almost never took advantage of those opportunities. And now I’m out of luck.

Something else to check out when we’re shopping for the Forever Home. And you can bet if I find out that we’re on a regular path for an ice cream truck, I’ll be dropping everything and sprinting out for an ice cream sandwich when I hear that tinny, electronic circus tune. If I happen to be in the middle of a work Zoom meeting? C’est la vie! A guy’s gotta do what a guy’s gotta do! I’ll be older and wiser the next time.

Today it happened. Fortunately, I was not in the middle of a work Zoom meeting.

While I’ve never heard an ice cream truck on our street before in the past 4+ months, this afternoon the sound was unmistakable. Tinny, electronic Christmas music.

I do not normally have my wallet or any money on my person when I’m working from home and time was short (our block only has six houses on each side, so he didn’t have far to go and head back out) so I broke the land-speed record getting to the bedroom on the other side of the house, grabbing my wallet, and sprinting out the front door. Fortunately, some kids from next door had slowed him down.

Mr. Reyes’ van has seen better days and looks like it’s been ridden hard and put away wet more than once. But it was chock o’ block full of frozen goodness, EXACTLY the way that I remembered it from my childhood. It was practically an out of body experience.

I got a Blue Bunny Chips Glaore! Cookie Sandwich, 300 calories, 12g of fat, 15mb of cholesterol, and 46g of carbohydrates, all of them delightful. For the Long-Suffering Wife I grabbed a Blue Bunny Drumstick. I asked the driver (perhaps Mr. Reyes himself?) to remember us and come back soon, I would be listening for his signal.

Then, planning for the future, since I almost missed him while sprinting through the house for my wallet, I grabbed some singles and have designated them as “Emergency Ice Cream Truck Money.”

When singles pile up I normally stuff them in a drawer and try to remember to take them when I travel for tips, but now I have a stack right where I can grab them quick and head out the front door. My office is at the front of the house, right by the front door, so when he comes back, next time I’ll be ready.

Just because it’s a simple, fondly-remembered experience from childhood doesn’t mean that the adult can’t stack the deck to make it successfully happen again!

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Maple Leaves – The Next Chapter

It was a joy watching the leaves on our front yard maple tree turn bright red. (See here and here, for example.)

Now –

The white branches and few straggler leaves look cool against a bright blue sky.

But, of course, all of those leaves had to go somewhere.

There they are! What a mess.

And the astroturf acts like Velcro as they blow up on there.

Once I get the final lights done I guess I’ll have to move into “homeowner maintenance” mode. Ugh!

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Hesperia Christmas Lights 2025 – Day Three

Not a lot of new lights up, mainly because they’re all “in transit” from where I ordered them online and the deliveries keep getting delayed. I tried to see if Lowe’s had anything still, and they’ve been picked pretty clean. My bad for not being prepared, I guess.

However, the wreathes came in, and like with our Pomelo house (from 7+ years ago) we again have two gorgeous wooden front door, each with a huge, all natural wreath from the Vermont Country Store.

I love the look! But what’s that hiding in the one on the right?

Sorry, I can’t help myself.

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Supermoon Over Christmas Lights

At the Forever Home, Friday is trash pickup day. So Thursday night is take-out-the-trash-bins night. Last night I was out shortly after sunset when, from the viewpoint at the curb, the Cold supermoon was just rising above the house.

Not bad, eh?

Every single day there’s still a moment when I stop, look around, and say, “DAMN! We live here!!!”

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Hesperia Christmas Lights 2025 – Day Two

Most of this work technically was done yesterday (today was filled with wonderful family activities for a belated Thanksgiving celebration) but yesterday I got distracted by pretty lights in the sky and it’s close enough for government work.

The garage end is good, with the basic foundation along the roofline of the big, colored C9 incandescent lights and the white icicle lights. Both of the old houses were covered end to end with two sets of lights. Not this house. At this end, headed back over the big white gate to the back yard driveway, the colored C9s make it to the corner, but the white icicle lights run out short. Need to get more sets.

My son got the candy canes installed along the driveway, and got about half of the small Italian cedars next to the driveway lit up. I’ll continue with those next time. Behind the Italian cedars is a 6′ cinder block wall, which would be GREAT to display a ton of lights on if I can just figure out an easy, cheap way to anchor the lights to the top of the wall. I have an idea…

The most glaring “gap” in the existing coverage in front is where the colored C9s and the white icicle lights run out WAAAAAY short coming around to the front. Probably going to need two additional sets of both here as well.

I wasn’t sure about putting the old artificial tree out in the front, but I think it looks nice in this corner. Although now that it’s primarily a night-time display, it probably needs a HUGE, BRIGHT star or something at the top.

At the old Scarborough house these blue & white cascading icicle LEDs used to go along about a third of the front of the house and looked nice. Here they wouldn’t even come close to covering a significant portion of the roofline so they would get swallowed up amid all of the other lights. But they’re the perfect width to fit in this section over the front door with the two pillars on either side. I just overlapped them and offset them so that it looks blue-white-blue-white-blue-white. I like the effect and think it will still stand out when I finish putting up the colored C9s and the white icicle lights. And I didn’t fall off the ladder and break anything putting them up there. WINNER!

This morning when I got up I was pleased to see that three of the four timers turned off correctly at 00:30 last night. This afternoon when we got home from our family affair I was equally pleased to see that those three then turned back on correctly at 16:15. Now I just have to figure out why that fourth timer is borked. No doubt it’s a user error.

The other suggestion I’ve had is to put at least a few lights up on the back yard roofline and on the pergola. I’ve never done the back yard at either of the two previous houses, but here we have vacant lots behind us and the rear roofline and top of the pergola can be seen from the main road coming into the subdivision and a little bit from the main road. It wouldn’t be that hard…

As one of my kids texted over the weekend: “How many lights Dad wants”

No inaccuracies found!

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Hesperia Christmas Lights 2025 – Day One

Day One of the efforts to decorate the Forever Home in Hesperia. I am not dissatisfied with the progress and results, but I have learned new truths.

Part of the “adventure” is figuring out where our existing light sets will go best on the new house. For starters, along the roof line we typically have dual lines of big, colorful C9 bulbs, along with white icicle lights. We started at the garage (southwest) corner of the house and from there worked both ways.

The good news is that we found a relatively quick and simple way to hang the lights and anchor them, and there are working power outlets up under the eaves on both ends of the house, as well as near the front door.

The bad news is that this house is HUGE and has a massive front roof line. There are gaps, and we’re going to neeed to make a trip to Lowe’s ASAP to get more lights.

Once we get the roof line done, then we can start to fill in with colored lights in the bushes along the driveway and the trees in the front yard.

At one point in the house hunting over the past couple of years I think I mentioned that a non-critical but also non-trivial consideration in looking a potential new houses was, “Are there lots of places where I can hang Christmas lights?” Some potential houses might have been on streets with more traffic, and at least one had even bigger roof lines and opportunities for hanging more lights, but this place is going to be pretty magnificent I think.

Updates to follow…

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Thanksgiving Sunset

Exactly what it says. It was one of the better ones, more pink and purple than orange in the back, with the quarter moon up high.

In the front is where the reds and oranges were found.

I hope that all of my American friends had a wonderful and peaceful Thanksgiving holiday with no arguments over dinner about politics, religion, or how Aunt Charlene is now Uncle Charlie.

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